As a boy I was fascinated with books, and most of my favorite books had a dashing hero, or an awkward hero but, there was always a hero in most books I chose to read. The Tolkien books had Bilbo and Frodo. The Stephen Donaldson books had Thomas Covenant. The Twain books had Huck Finn. But my favorite hero was from the Dumas books “The Three Musketeers” and my hero was D’Artagnan’. He was my favorite for all the reasons that I later came to understand were the qualities of a person who believed in LOYALTY above all else. At the time it was all we really had, loyalty that is. Our family was like an island all to itself. My brother and my sisters and I would often play together for hours and hours using only our imaginations to entertain ourselves. Since we had sisters we, as boys, would often have to concede to our sisters and play something that they would like too. So I remember playing things like Paper Dolls. Do you remember paper dolls? The Archies had a set of paper dolls with Veronica, Betty, Jughead, Reggie, and Archie of course. If you don’t know, ARCHIE was a comic book. Anyway, long story short, I would always wind up playing the one guy that no one else would be, in this case Reggie, because he was always scheming or cheating his way into getting his choice of the right girl to date. My point is that I always understood what it meant to play the bad guy or the unwanted guy, but inside I always thought of myself as D’Artagnan. The young upstart with skills but not the experience, so he chose to surround himself with people who were more experienced and wiser than himself. And I always gravitated, in my real life, toward people who had something to teach me. My best friends have always been “oddballs” or real “Characters” with depth and wisdom beyond their years. I am bringing this up now because as I am sure you noticed the name on this blog is Dartanion, (the Americanized version D’Artagnan)..and this is the name I gave to my first son. When he was very young I would fix his hair exactly the way you see on the baby in the picture above. And the expression on that babies face is the expression that was on my face the day he was born. I am telling you this so that you have some understanding why the title of this blog is what it is. The “2” behind the name is there for my second son, who’s name is Griffin. And today Griffin will be going to my mothers house to visit for a week and my mother will direct him to this blog. So I wanted to explain that I did not name this blog out of favoritism….I did it out of love for my sons and to pay respect to the hero I so cherished as a child. I haven’t seen my sons for, what seems like forever, but I miss them, and dream of them, all the time. I just needed them to know……….so thank you guys for your kind accepting of this very personal post. I just wanted to say to them both…….I LOVE YOU…very, very, much. …………I am Dartanion2………and that’s the way I see it……..t xx
We fit together like a glove honey, you the hero and me the oddball !! What a lovely way to bring your boy`s into this cyber world of Metaphysics. Do they love those subjects like their Daddy? Love G xx
Not yet G, but the day has just begun……..trust me, I’m all over this one…(lol)……good to hear from you sweety……t
Hi T. I love the way you were the sibling willing to play with Reggie and be the bad guy to appease your siblings. That is so cute and says a lot about your unselfish nature. I was the strange little girl that played with her Lone Ranger doll with his horse, Silver. Boys thought I was being a tom boy, but no…..I just loved horses and heroes and it was a perfect combo for me. Lol It is so nice growing up with sibling to play with and shape our personalities by what we learn with adapting to each other. It is what made me want many children….to give them that gift. I can tell you love your boys much, and I am sure they know it. Yes, the things we do for love……as the bible says in Corinthans….”love is patient, love is kind, it is not boastful or demand its own way.” You exhibit these honorable loving qualities…..by being Reggie in paper dolls. It moved me. Great blog. xox C
Hi Cherie, you played with a Lone Ranger doll……who knew? You seem like a Barbie type but now that I think about it….you do have that huge thing about horses. hmmm I guess that does make sense……..yep, I played with paper dolls…I admit it…please don’t hurt me……..smiles……..thanx for commenting Cherie……..t xx
Hey Tony, that was great. Enjoyed reading about the childhood heroes and the kids. Sometimes I miss those days when my kids were younger. But then again I have gray hairs for a reason, lol. My oldest one just turned 24 and I remember him as a boy. I’m an only child so we decided early on to try for at least two. I would not trade them for anything. They are four completly personalities. Glad you have two, enjoy them man, they grow fast. Like Cherie said it’s clear you love your children and I can see that also. I know you’re a terrific dad, Good stuff, brother.
Hi C, I can’t really say I’m a terrific Dad…..but I do Love them….I just don’t get to see them……I talk to them a lot……but it’s different……maybe we’ll go into that sometime….but I do agree, they grow up awful fast…….thanks for your kind words C……always a pleasure my brother…….t xx
Dear Tony, i am so happy for you and your sons that this blog can communicate the legacy of love you wish to gift to them. It thrills my heart that your dear Mom can be a personal part of this also. This is an answer to prayer and a new river of love between your hearts. Griffin will enjoy his time with his beloved Grandma and have a special bond with you in the midst of it all. I celebrate in spirit and in my heart for you and the loving light shining through all this. Happy also that there are so many meaningful connections with other dear souls that are responding to you and you to them. Bless you dear Tony and may the fun and joy with your son getting to visit his precious Grandma be wonderful and life giving and freeing to both your amazing beloved sons. Many prayers answered 🙂 Love Always in Jesus and may the Father’s light and love continue to freely be seen and evident in your life and hearts expression. From my heart and home in Ohio to yours in Chicago 🙂
Hi Kate, WOW! I’m so happy you found your way here….it’s God making sure we do not lose touch, and , of course, some effort on your part. I miss you, but now that you are hear perhaps we can continue our discourse and love of spirituality……I want know everything….some time today I will send you a more in depth reply……wow……so happy you’re here…YAY!…..thanks my dear friend…..smiles……tony xx
I do have more to learn about the social connections and how these places help people to really share their hearts and lives so well. I am still learning . It took three tries several never went through but yeah, i finally made the connection. Hope you are feeling a bit better and healing light and touch spiritually of healing virtue brings you out in better health real soon as well. I remember it all seemed so far off when we first communicated some time ago but playing tag you are it we progressed in out friendship into sharing our lives through prayer and meaningful friendship over time but now you ha e emerged to really be more of what you were destined to be always caring and sharing with more and more people and ha ing new creative friends and lives that you would touch and likewise be toughed by those God would and now has sent….divine appointments…love in written forms that shine out of His greatest love
to touch more lives and bring a legacy worthy of sharing to your beloved sons !
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People keep asking me about the name of my blog……..like where does the DARTANION come from?………….this is a post I did a while ago that will answer that question for you………..I just figured out yesterday that the reason I haven’t been getting as many comments lately is because you can’t comment on the reblog………..so regu lar posts will be back tomorrow………I have lot’s to tell you about what’s happening with my Doctor’s and etc. too…………..so here’s why I named my blog what I have………..shout out to UK, BRAZIL and ITALY for joining in the last few days…………thanx to you ALL………..smiles…..T xx